Men you can't live with them and you can't live with you them

I always been asking myself this question for years? Why is that? Also another good question I been asking myself, why are men big babies?

Well this month seems to be the theme of the men are big babies. Cj my husband well you see he has had bad luck this month. A couple of weeks ago he woke up with a kink neck and it was very painful for him to turn his head to look left or right. Me trying to be a good wife, I tried to help him work the kink out and asked if he wanted me to massage his neck. Let me tell you what he fought me like a kid fights to get what they want. When you help men its like pulling teeth out?>_< Finally after bickering over it he finally let me help him. I love it when I prove him right, I put some mineral ice on his neck and massaged it in and started to work out it. He then began to relax and start to feel better. Well the next day he was able to move it more then he was the day before. He finally got his neck to pop and massage the last of the knot and he was better. See I told you so :D.

Yeah, well let me tell you what that didn't last long:/. Yesterday he woke up with his left foot swollen and it hurt him to walk, I again asked what I can do to help and guess what his answer was. If you guessed then your right, he said he didn't need my help. Well later as the day goes on we had errands to run, I know the pain was getting worst because he was pulling faces. So again I asked him what he wanted me to do to help, AND AGAIN he said we didn't need my help and that he was fine. So we finally get home and get dinner ready he sat on the couch and was moaning because of the pain. He still didn't want any help so I let it be. Well around 12 am in the morning I was sitting next to him and his leg was bouncing because of the pain and he was almost in tears. I finally turned to him and told him that he either need to go to the hospital or take something for the pain. So to avoid going to the hospital he to something for the pain, but unfortunately the pain killers didn't work. So around 1 I asked him if he wanted to go to the hospital, he finally agreed to go.

So while we were waiting to go to the hospital we both were nerves to go, you see the last time he went to the hospital for what was the same thing they gave him a demerol shot and it ended up killing him  because he was allergic to it.  So I was a nerves reck but I know we had to go to get him to get better. So  I said a silent pray that everything will be okay. So we took him in and while we waited we discussed how we are going to pay, because we are both unemployed and couldn't afford to pay the hospital bill. So when the doctor came in he check Cj's foot and sure enough it was the same thing that he had when he found out that he was allergic to demerol. It was cellulitis which is infection in between the muscle and skin. So the doctor prescribe antibiotics, the nurse came in and started to take some information from us and asked us if we have insurance, which we don't. She was kind enough to tell us what we can to so we can pay the hospital. She gave us a contact card to their finical aid and set up a payment plan.


We both came out happy. For one he didn't die for a allergic reaction, Second they were willing to help us out, and Three when they found out he had allergy to medication they put bright orange bracelet on his wrist to alert everyone that he has an allergy. So we came home and he took pain killer and went to bed. We got up today and call the pharmacy at Walgreens to see how much it would cost to get the prescription filled (Which was another stress) and WOW is all I got to say it only cost us to 12 to get the prescription filled.

Well I know can say I feel a lot better knowing now the he has the medication that will help him get better :D. I hate to see him in so much pain.  But seriously it was like pulling teeth to get him to do something that need to be done. Is it because he is a man and men doesn't need help?? Or is it the pride?? Well what ever it is he now knows that he can't win even if he tries hard enough.

On a plus side I have 5 more days til my birthday:D. And see know that he listened to me means when my birthday comes he wont be in so much pain.  I can't wait til my birthday.

OH I also forgot to say I LOVE YOU CJ even though you can be a pain, but I love you.XD.